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Kama Sutra: Sexual Aids & Dildos… WHAT?

Kama Sutra

Lovers in ancient times had a responsibility one to another for sexual satisfaction, and lovemaking. In one of the world’s oldest sexual manuals the Kama Sutra, (“Kama” meaning love and desire, and “Sutra” meaning threading) it is said that lovemaking is a sacred duty between a man and a woman. It was taught within the natures of love, and a deep part of the culture, and as a way of life. Unlike what we are taught in today’s society. We are conditioned to feel shame, guilt and insecurity because of our natural sexual progression and sexual desire.

SensualFoodieChaiTeaSpices-1024x622During the 3rd century there was no such thing as an under orgasmic woman. A husband who was unable to satisfy his lover or his wife was to make every effort to remedy the situation. For a man’s inability to satisfy his wife was not part of the culture, and he must make every provision necessary that would either obtain his erection or encourage his wife’s sexual pleasure. Sages, and/or medicine men and women would prepare elixirs and aphrodisiacs with foods, herbs, and spice mixtures. Some consisted of goats milk, fennel, licorice, pumpkin seeds, cinnamon, almonds, honey, and ghee to strengthen the unfortunate man’s man muscle, and stimulate his sexual desire. If these elixirs weren’t bringing about the desired sexual results in a timely manner he was to remedy the sexually unfortunate situation with foreplay, oral sex or an artificial penis. Yes, you heard it right, a DILDO! He was to skillfully use an artificial penis to give sexual pleasure to his wife. This verse gives instruction to an artificial penis to be used to bring women to orgasmic delight and sexual satisfaction.

Gold Vibrator 2“The man who is utterly unable to achieve an erection should pleasure his wife/lover with a phallus crafted from materials like gold, silver, copper, iron, ivory or horn. The artificial phallus should be shaped to your natural proportions. It will be more arousing for the lady if the outside is studded with a profusion of large, smooth nodules” ( Kama Sutra: Part 7, Chapter 1, Sutras 4–8).

Ooooh, it sounds like these studs and nodules was meant for more vaginal stimulation and arousal upon entry and during penetration. Oh my! Who knew? Here we thought we were sexually advanced in the art of sexual novelties and stimulation, and ancient lovers created methods , means and artifacts to keep a woman happy and sexually satisfied in ancient times!

Black IntimacyFor those you who are sexually frustrated because of your belief that using sexual aids is prohibited. Give yourself permission to experience sexual aids, sexual pleasure, and it’s wonderful release with sexual innovation, and intervention. Don’t cheat yourself, treat yourself with a wonderful dong, dildo, and/or vibrator that can make your love life increase in sexual happiness, and orgasmic pleasure. Men love your woman enough to move pass your ego and let her become sexually satisfied until your beautiful man muscle is putting in work at optimal performance. Remember, a happy wife means a happy life!

When creating that intimate rendezvous with your lover Honey Luv has all of your boudoir sexcessories.  Visit our website at  Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store” or contact us at 337.944.9131 Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to our radio show on Tuesday evenings at 9 pm CST on HoneySoul Radio on Blog Talk Radio.  Remember to “Live in the sensual and LOVE in the Delicious.”

The Honey Diva

Sex, Energy and Divine Balance

Adam & Eve

 

The idea that MALE and FEMALE energy functions independently and are separate has caused a great deal of confusion, a lack of communication, support and sexual cohesiveness among men and women. I have learned that because of the essential nature of MALE and FEMALE energies, and the fact that they are intertwined, they can only fulfill their FULLEST potential in cooperation. Everything in existence is fueled by both MALE and FEMALE energies, and everything in nature possesses both energies which are present and are coexistent.

The MALE energy is outwardly focused and very EXTERNAL. It’s the Spirit that drives outward manifestation, that materializes and takes form. The MALE energy is an electro force in that it releases energy, and therefore it knows and is aware of it’s strong creative force. It is natural for MALE energy to be highly focused, aggressive and goal-oriented. MALE energy creates individuality.

FEMALE energy is INTERNAL. It’s energy is comforting. It is the energy of the Primal Source, the Flowing Light, Pure Being. It’s energy is attractive, magnetic, highly creative, fertile and abundant source. It has the ability to influence and draw things to itself. It receives and absorbs the inner aspect of all things MALE and FEMALE. It gives birth to the spirit of ideas, visions, and nurtures consciousness. It’s natural for FEMALE energy to be intense and magnetic having the ability to draw MALE energy to itself. It does not differentiate or individualize. The FEMALE energy is all encompassing.

MALE or FEMALE energy may dominate an experience with more of an increased level of  frequency than the other, due to the speed at which it’s essence vibrates toward a propelled purpose this is often times predestined. When we operate from a place of simple lust without thought and compassion, and are unaware of the power and potency of MALE and FEMALE energy we create chaos and confusion that is damaging to ourselves, our creative nature, our connection to source; as well as our ability to manifest like the SUPREME sexual, orgasmic, and creative beings that we are meant to be.

Due to the FEMININE energy being viewed and nurtured as a lesser source, a lack of balance and creative instability exist. The FEMININE must be honored as well as the MASCULINE for a holistic BALANCE in all relationships rather they are physical, emotional, mental, spiritual and/or sexual. We must operate from a space of female acknowledgement, LOVE and SUPPORT for the FEMININE in respect of both energies working equally as a DIVINE unit and complimenting one to the other as a WHOLE, and not as separate energies. Then and only then will we receive authentic SEXUAL intercourse, communication and gratification on a metaphysical level, and create the KING and QUEENDOM of HEAVEN right here on EARTH. Only then will we WO-MANIFEST GOD! 

For more wisdom and information on the subject of Sexual Alchemy, Attraction and Gender listen to HoneySoul Radio archive show. We are joined by Kemetic Scholar, Martial Arts Master, Sexual Alchemist and Pranic Healer, Wayne B. Chandler. He is the internationally known author of the acclaimed book, “Ancient Future: The Teachings and Prophetic Wisdom of the Seven Hermetic Laws of Ancient Egypt.” It’s Universal Wisdom of the Ancestors.

Remember when creating that intimate rendezvous with your lover Honey Luv has all of your boudoir sexcessories. Visit our website at  Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store” or contact us at 337.944.9131 Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to our radio show on Tuesday evenings at 9pm CST on HoneySoul Radio on Blog Talk Radio.  Remember to “Live in the sensual and LOVE in the Delicious.”

~ The Honey Diva