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Men crave

There are 3 primary things that men must have and receive from their women. It is what we as women should be nurturing in our men to bring the best out in him and his character. He must feel important in the relationship. He must know that his feelings matter. Don’t sleep on these three insights. They can make or break your love relationship.

1. Desire – We must make our men feel wanted, needed and appreciated. We can show him just how much by how we display levels of affection. Touching, kissing and holding him is a great way to show him you got a thing for him. Spontaneous sex is necessary in reassuring him that you crave him.

2. Loyalty – Men need to know that you respect them and hold their opinions in high regard. They must feel assured that what they have with you is in confidence and trust at home and in public. Once a man feels that you value his feelings he will open up and feel comfortable in being himself and sharing his true feelings with you.

3. Appreciation – Men need to know that what they provide to the relationship has value, and it doesn’t always need to be monetary. It’s the little things that he does that also need recognition. Communicate your appreciation in words and with sexual affection. Make love to him with sexual enthusiasm. Add some bomb ass head and YOU GOT HIM and he got YOU!

Now, go and elevate your love and your relationship. Take your love thang to the next level. 

Tracey R. Bryant is a sensual woman known as “The Honey Diva”. She is a Sexual Empowerment Coach, of Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store. and Feminine Health, Yoni Steam Practitioner and Womb Wellness Educator of Sensual Honey Feminine Wellness . She’s the creator and Yoni Alchemist of Sensual Honey Sweet Yoni Tea, and the hostess of HoneySoul Radio  a Love, Sex and Soul online radio show. She can be contacted at thehoneydiva1@gmail.com

Love, Money, Milk and Honey

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I hear so many women say they won’t or don’t want to accept a man’s money, under any circumstance. I have heard them say that they don’t feel right accepting money from a man because they feel as though they are prostituting themselves when they have laid down with him, and he offers to pay a bill, or an expense, or ask her how he may provide for her with something she needs or wants. Some women get offended when a  man states his desire to gift her with anything that holds any monetary value. Women have told me they feel cheap, and they don’t need a man to provide for them. That they can provide for themselves. These are things that make me go, “Hmmm!” I raise an eyebrow or two. “Why do I raise an eyebrow you ask?” Because I also hear these same women complain about there being no good men. 

I don’t care what anyone says a man having money is super sexy! Knowing how to double it up and triple stack it is such a major turn on. Being broke isn’t pretty or attractive at anytime. In order for our union to be successful, expand and grow we have to be willing to receive. 

We attract what we think and what we feel. If we think and feel there are no good men, that is what we will attract. We will attract cheap, insensitive, self-centered men, who can give a rat’s ass if we eat, if we keep our your lights on, have gas in our car, if our car note is paid, if we get to work or not, or make it to class on time, if we need toilet paper, or if we have pampered ourselves lately, and if we are feeling comfortable or not. I could go on and on. However, I personally have no problem sharing my time, space and energy with a man who loves to provide for me. A man who feels I am deserving of his money. These qualities get me all hot and bothered. He has found one very important way to stimulate my succulent center. I am full of sexual energy, and ready to reward him with all my moist, juicy goodness.

man-giving-woman-money 1A man sharing his money to honor what he feels, and who he believes to be a deserving woman is a man not only sharing his money but his wealth. I’m not just speaking of monetary wealth. I’m talking about his view of who you are in connection to his wealth, to his assets, his substance and his self-worth. It’s much deeper than the surface of what we think money represents. It has to do with his mentality, and his state of mind about what he feels he deserves when it comes to you, and what he feels you deserve when it comes to him. He has included you in his wealthy place. A real man knows that when his woman is happy she will be at her greatest potential. At her greatest potential she will inspire him and give him what he needs to develop, grow and expand. A man who is willing to share his money with you is a man who is honoring his manhood in connection to who you are as a woman, who you are as a nurturer, and your feminine ability to bring out the best in him, how you influence, and inspire him, how you make him feel when he is with you, and even how your energy makes him feel when you’re not with him. He is ultimately honoring you.

Let’s be clear! This inspiration that I speak of is stimulated through SEX! Yes, ladies I know what many of you are thinking,  “Sex and money is not something that should be exchanged. There isn’t any amount of money that equates to my pussy. It’s priceless!”

I agree! My love and my body are priceless and no amount of money can match it’s worth. This is why when a man has a serious thing for YOU he will continuously share his money, and his wealth in a variety of ways over and again. Because in his spirit that man knows he is honoring you through his worth, and a man’s worth is connected to his wallet, and his means of providing, and proving his affections. Men want SEX, support, love, encouragement and reassurance, and most of the time in that order. We have been misinformed about sex and money. “Sex is the GREAT motivator. Men will move mountains.” Quote me as saying that. It’s Yin and Yang. Male and Female. It’s Universal Law, Cosmic Order and Divine Principle. What we know to be Sacred Masculine energy releases, gives out and is action oriented, with a desire to manifest, and produce. Divine Feminine energy receives, absorbs, nurtures, develops and nourishes with a desire to multiply, and increase in and of itself, giving birth whether that be an idea, a vision, a child or our man. Yes, Ladies we are constantly using our feminine energy to rebirth our men.

man giving a woman a giftThe #1 thing we women want is SECURITY. “Security equals money.” Think about it! We want to know that we don’t have to worry about the eviction or foreclosure notice being stuck on the door next month, or that our home and place of refuge, or our comfort is being threatened.  As women most of us need to feel secure to engage in sex with a man, especially if we are contemplating having a relationship. Security brings comfort, and security and comfort brings about more sex. More great sex! When you are happy and secure you desire to have sex all the time. We stay hot and ready! Security and comfort enhances romance, happiness and pleasure. We create and experience BOMB orgasms when we feel secure. Rather it’s financial, emotional, or mental. Security equates stability. We need are men to be stable. Men need sex to thrive. . 

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A man without money can’t support his role in providing, protecting nor securing his position as THE MAN, and we can’t expect him to contribute his part if we won’t accept his money. A Real Man desires to give, and provide for the woman he professes he loves, and if he doesn’t have it he’s thinking of a means of getting it, because she is his inspiration. Just think about how happy the two of you are when you are not stressing about money issues? Ladies, don’t ever become so independent that you won’t allow a man to provide, or do for you. Even if you do have it for yourself, allow him his rightful place in being a MAN. Allow him the room to do what he is born to do. Ladies, a real man wants to spoil YOU!  Accept him in all of his generosity. Let him play his position. We can eliminate many bad, drama filled relationships if we step our game up,  increase our self worth and recognize our pussy potential. 

I feel there is no bigger turn OFF then a man having money and not releasing it, especially if he desires to release his semen all inside my hot sugar walls. I would certainly play myself small if I were to do without, and Mister is enjoying all of my creamy essence while depositing his DNA.  As the saying goes, “No romance without finance.” This is true. There is nothing good that’s going to come out of any relationship between a man and a woman if he is not responsible for his portion of the supervision. 

When it’s all said and done we can LOVE his dirty drawers, but love doesn’t keep the lights on. Love and money are a great combination. Love, SEX and money now that’s the ULTIMATE collabo! Anything is possible and can be done when in love, while enjoying the binding commitment of two souls experiencing orgasm, and working from a space of abundance. The KINGDOM & QUEENDOM of Heaven is at hand. Balance is key. Without money, there’s no milk and honey. Ladies, let him adore you. 

Want more of this “Love, Sex and Money” wisdom listen to HoneySoul Radio “Sex Love & Prosperity” with Rev. Goddess Charmaine. We discuss Sexual Energy Flow, Abundance, Prosperity, Sexual Transmutation, Wealth, and how to change our limited thinking about money. ~ The Honey Diva 

Tracey R. Bryant also known as “The Honey Diva” is a Romance Specialist, a Self Love and Sensual Empowerment Coach, Holistic Sexual Health, Yoni Steam and Kemetic Reiki Practitioner, Womb Wellness, and Sex Educator. She is the owner of Sensual Honey Feminine Wellness – a new feminine and tranquil spa experience. She is also the owner of Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store.” A sensual empowerment boutique that promotes romance, sensual and sexual health and wellness to women and couples. She is the hostess of HoneySoul Radio a Love, Sex and Relationship online radio show. She can be contacted at honeysweetness1@gmail.com

The Healing Wisdom of Water and Your Sexual Soul

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The Elders knew what they were speaking of when they said, “Wade in the water, God’s going to trouble the water.” The old folk knew the significance and the wisdom of the water and release. Baptism is symbolic of that womb time experience and even coined as being “REBORN”. Spirit incubates and emerges from the water of the womb, and our physical bodies are formed. As we develop and are released from water we become Earth beings however always returning to our connection to water for nutrients, cleansing, hydration, purification and wisdom. Going back to the wisdom of water for purification is very important and needed, and without this relationship we will cease to exist. Water rituals keep us grounded and are necessary in removing emotional imbalance, unwanted stress, energetic and physical toxins as well as bringing feelings of renewal, peace, comfort and calm. 

Sexual energy and orgasm also generate waters. In Tantra waters from the male known as semen or Bindu, is life force waters, and from the female known as Amrita, the sweet nectar of blessed waters of immortality. Within every orgasm or sexual and spiritual energy exchange there is consciousness that contains character attributes and elements of personality. As lovers we release this energy during sexual exchange leaving deposits and imprints of ourselves within the deepest recesses of our lover’s mind, body and soul. That’s why many times it’s so hard for many of us to shake an ex lover who may have been toxic and unhealthy. Our sexual energy exchange goes deep into the core of our being, and is transmitted through the spirit and water. However, water in combination with intent, prayer, meditation, crystals and essential oils, is a great method for releasing old unwanted sexual energy in that it deals with clearing, cleansing and removing sexual blockage, and toxic residual energy of past lovers from our three lower houses known as our grounding chakras. The Root Chakra houses our survival energy, and deals with our ability to feel safe and secure. The Sacral Chakra houses our sexual energy, our intuition and our creativity. Our Solar Plexus Chakra houses our energy of emotions, appetite and our will power. Cleansing and releasing chakra blockages from these three energy centers can remove unwanted energetic memory, and increase our ability to move on, and move through unwanted stagnation and open ourselves up into healthy expansion in our other relationships, and into our blessings of purpose, and abundance.

Essential and aromatic oils of lavender, chamomile, and rose, are for grounding on a physical and emotional level, and used to release fear on a cellular level. Essential oils such as cedarwood, clary sage, patchouli, rosewood and sandalwood are typical root chakra oils, and assist in grounding our spiritual energy and bring us back to focus and clarity.

With this cleansing ritual you always want to speak your intent and give thanks to the omnipotent presence and wisdom of water. Fill your foot basin or bath tub with water and add a 1/2 cup of witch hazel, a 1/2 cup of sea salt, and 6 to 10 drops of essential oil into your foot tub our bath of fresh warm water. You can also use this ritual as a spiritual bath by immersing your whole body for purification and release. Include crystal stones such as; Quartz Crystal, and/or Red Jasper, Bloodstone, Orange Calcite or Black Obsidian to your water to heighten the vibration. Their qualities and attributes assist us to re-group our energies and dispel accumulated negative vibrations allowing for protection, clarity, balance and equilibrium within the mind, body and soul. 

Add flowers such as rose petals for added frequency. Place your feet to the water and soak. You may want to burn resin incense of Copal, Sandalwood and Myrrh, and/or burn a candle. Incense represent the element of air, and candles represent the element of fire. Now, you have all of the elements present in your healing and release. This will connect you to utilizing a dimension that is very specific to healing and grounding your mind, body and physical space. Clear your mind and tell the Universe your intent and what you need to remove from your life. Keep your feet and/or body submersed a minimum 20 or 30 minutes until you feel light as a feather. 

Remove your crystals and dump the water in the toilet and visualize flushing your worries and the residue from an ex lover, or a bad experience down the drain. Only use your foot basin for your feet to water ritual. When removing toxins you want to be sure not to transfer the energy in other areas of your life by using the basin for additional purposes. Add a few drops of essential oil to your body and/or foot cream and massage lovingly and tell yourself positive affirmations. 

Continue to do this water ritual as many times as you like to remain and stay grounded. Just remember to remove and detox negativity regularly. Speak life into yourself and your environment. Get rid of old clothes, photos and personal effects that keep you contained mentally and emotionally by the power of thought. Reverse unhealthy messages that block your health and emotional wellness. Live, breathe and laugh in your juicy flow, and expect to receive your breakthrough.  

For sensual and feminine Womb wellness visit Sensual Honey Feminine Wellness a new feminine, and tranquil spa experience providing women with an exclusive experience in feminine care, detox, and pampering to the womb through Herbal Infused Yoni Steaming, Womb Massage, Crystal Foot Baths & Detox, Crystal Energy Healing and Clearing, and Kemetic Reiki. We support womb health,  education, wellness, and feminine rejuvenation.  

Remember when creating that intimate rendezvous with your lover Honey Luv has all of your boudoir sexcessories. Visit our website at  Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store” or contact us at 337.944.9131 Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to our radio show on Tuesday evenings at 9 pm CST on HoneySoul Radio on Blog Talk Radio.  Remember to “Live in the sensual and LOVE in the Delicious.”

~ The Honey Diva





Clary Sage

Dealing with issues of depression, low self esteem and low sex drive? Aromatherapy can give you that needed boost. Clary Sage Essential Oil is an antidepressant and boosts self esteem, confidence, hope and mental strength and efficiently fights depression, for those who are suffering from depression due to failure in career or love, insecurity, loneliness, stagnation, someone’s death or any other reason. It also relieves anxiety. It is an aphrodisiac, which means boosts your libido and sexual desires. It is very effective in treating frigidity, psychological problems resulting in loss of libido or even impotency. These are just some of it’s healing properties. It works equally effective in males and females. Add a little Clary Sage Essential Oil to your life today. Burn it in a diffuser or place a few dabs on your temples and the inside of the wrist.

Remember when creating that intimate rendezvous with that sexy someone Honey Luv has all of your boudoir sexcessories. Visit our website at  Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store” or contact us at 337.944.9131 Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to our radio show  Tuesday evening at 9pm CST on HoneySoul Radio on Blog Talk Radio. Live in the sensual and LOVE in the delicious.

~ The Honey Diva

Love and The Spirit of Intuition

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Do you know how many of us ask our spirit intuition a question and don’t trust in the answer? Your intuition is your sweet sacred spot of divine knowing. It’s a gateway to your higher self. It’s that whisper that signals your heart. Many of us ignore it because it’s not often times practical. Your spirit intuition works as a  life coach, psychic or oracle. Your spirit intuition is just that “Your inner oracle.” Its your GUIDE! It moves from question to solution in 0 to 5 seconds and it comes as a feeling, a hunch, a nudge, a word or a thought in your spirit.

Our bodies are energy conduits and receives messages from our MOST HIGH source when we are tapped in and wired for sound. Meditation is a great way to develop your capacity for connecting to spirit intuition. Feeding and nourishing our bodies with organic live whole foods is also a great source of energizing and intensifying our senses, making us more sensitive to receiving our answers and messages.

Our senses is how our spirit intuition speaks to us. It’s through sight and vision often times in our dreams. Certain smells and aromas can spark thoughts. The art of touch, the laying of hands holds and transfers energy. The ability to hear with our hearts and spirits brings on feelings and empathic energy. Speaking and channeling communication from our spirit selves, and even communicating with our ancestors, or celestial beings brings messages of direction. This form of communication can move and motivate us to higher aspirations and elevated levels of love and experience. Thorough the transmission of our senses is how we are giving the ability to communicate with our higher selves. It’s often times what we call GOD and/or GODDESS.

One of the many reasons we find ourselves in bad situations and many toxic and love less relationships is because in many cases we never ask our spirit intuition for help or guidance. We may have even gotten a nudge, a hunch, a vision, a word and/or a sign of some kind and ignored it all together. However, our spirit of intuition is very powerful and is our deepest connection to TRUTH in our inner and outer worlds.

Try this: If you have a decision to make then imagine the two alternatives. Step into the first option, imagine it in your mind. What do you see? feel? hear? sense? believe? What are your thoughts in that moment? If you feel lightness, peace and joy then TRUST YOURSELF! This is a good choice for you. If you feel fear, hesitation, and that strong feeling in the pit of your stomach that signals something isn’t right then TRUST YOURSELF! This may not be the best choice for you!

You can also do the same when dating. Spirit intuition works better than any dating site. We can tap into this portal of sacred guidance whenever we open our hearts and replace fear with love.

Try this: Before going on a first date write down your date’s name and place your hand over it. Close your eyes and do a short meditation and quiet your mind. Now, ask yourself… “Is this person good for my spirit?” Ask to feel their energy. If the energy you feel of the person makes you smile and you become light hearted and happy, that’s a YES from your spirit intuition. Your higher self is telling you that this person will be a loving presence in your life. If the energy you feel revs up your sexual nature, and elevates thoughts of sensual, sexual touch that’s telling you what the focus of this relationship will be. Look forward to having great sexual experiences. Oooh, la, la!

If the energy feels bad and is in the pit of your stomach and you feel anxious, or nauseous, and get a feeling that is uncomfortable or uneasy, cancel the date. If you don’t feel a warm loving energy in your heart, that resonates through your body while picturing and feeling this person’s energy, this probably won’t be a FULL filling or productive relationship on any account. The spirit of intuition operates from a space of  LOVE.

So, when you ask – ask specifically, ask with LOVE and without expectation, ask without projecting fear or negative emotions, and ask like you expect to receive an answer! You will hear that internal voice that sounds much like YOU! Now, all you have to do is LISTEN and OBEY to what LOVE has to say.

“Ask and it will be given, seek and you will find, knock and it will be opened to you.” (Luke, 11:7)

Need some help nudging your inner wisdom and connecting with your spirit of intuition get your very own Love Tarot Reading with Madame The Honey Diva. Call 337.944.9131 and book your session today. Gain insight and clarity on Love, Sex, Healing and Abundance.

Remember when creating that intimate rendezvous with that sexy someone Honey Luv has all of your boudoir sexcessories. Visit our website at  Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store” or contact us at 337.944.9131 Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to our radio show  Tuesday evening at 9pm CST on HoneySoul Radio on Blog Talk Radio. Live in the sensual and LOVE in the delicious.