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Kama Sutra: Sexual Aids & Dildos… WHAT?

Kama Sutra

Lovers in ancient times had a responsibility one to another for sexual satisfaction, and lovemaking. In one of the world’s oldest sexual manuals the Kama Sutra, (“Kama” meaning love and desire, and “Sutra” meaning threading) it is said that lovemaking is a sacred duty between a man and a woman. It was taught within the natures of love, and a deep part of the culture, and as a way of life. Unlike what we are taught in today’s society. We are conditioned to feel shame, guilt and insecurity because of our natural sexual progression and sexual desire.

SensualFoodieChaiTeaSpices-1024x622During the 3rd century there was no such thing as an under orgasmic woman. A husband who was unable to satisfy his lover or his wife was to make every effort to remedy the situation. For a man’s inability to satisfy his wife was not part of the culture, and he must make every provision necessary that would either obtain his erection or encourage his wife’s sexual pleasure. Sages, and/or medicine men and women would prepare elixirs and aphrodisiacs with foods, herbs, and spice mixtures. Some consisted of goats milk, fennel, licorice, pumpkin seeds, cinnamon, almonds, honey, and ghee to strengthen the unfortunate man’s man muscle, and stimulate his sexual desire. If these elixirs weren’t bringing about the desired sexual results in a timely manner he was to remedy the sexually unfortunate situation with foreplay, oral sex or an artificial penis. Yes, you heard it right, a DILDO! He was to skillfully use an artificial penis to give sexual pleasure to his wife. This verse gives instruction to an artificial penis to be used to bring women to orgasmic delight and sexual satisfaction.

Gold Vibrator 2“The man who is utterly unable to achieve an erection should pleasure his wife/lover with a phallus crafted from materials like gold, silver, copper, iron, ivory or horn. The artificial phallus should be shaped to your natural proportions. It will be more arousing for the lady if the outside is studded with a profusion of large, smooth nodules” ( Kama Sutra: Part 7, Chapter 1, Sutras 4–8).

Ooooh, it sounds like these studs and nodules was meant for more vaginal stimulation and arousal upon entry and during penetration. Oh my! Who knew? Here we thought we were sexually advanced in the art of sexual novelties and stimulation, and ancient lovers created methods , means and artifacts to keep a woman happy and sexually satisfied in ancient times!

Black IntimacyFor those you who are sexually frustrated because of your belief that using sexual aids is prohibited. Give yourself permission to experience sexual aids, sexual pleasure, and it’s wonderful release with sexual innovation, and intervention. Don’t cheat yourself, treat yourself with a wonderful dong, dildo, and/or vibrator that can make your love life increase in sexual happiness, and orgasmic pleasure. Men love your woman enough to move pass your ego and let her become sexually satisfied until your beautiful man muscle is putting in work at optimal performance. Remember, a happy wife means a happy life!

When creating that intimate rendezvous with your lover Honey Luv has all of your boudoir sexcessories.  Visit our website at  Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store” or contact us at 337.944.9131 Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to our radio show on Tuesday evenings at 9 pm CST on HoneySoul Radio on Blog Talk Radio.  Remember to “Live in the sensual and LOVE in the Delicious.”

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Honey Luv Valentine’s Gift Giving Guide


Expressing your love and affection can be different for everyone. At Honey Luv we want to help make that experience a little sweeter  and easier.  This list of sexy Valentine’s Day gift suggestions are for different types of lovers. So ask yourself, “What type of lover are you?” We will share sexy and fun-loving ideas that will help you to decide.

The Romantic Lover:

Kama Sutra Sensual Massage Candles  – melt from candle wax to massage oil in a heartbeat, gliding onto your lover’s skin for a smooth as silk sensual massage.  Warm and seductive, these unique candles ease you and your lover on a romantic journey.  Travel to a world of pure bliss with these incredibly rich and sensual oils.


Le Petits Bon Bons Feather Tickler  If you want to add a soft, sweet feel to your romantic night in, try one of our feather ticklers to tempt and tease your lover. For an even more sensual experience, have your lover wear a blindfold while you trace his or her body with the soft feathers.

The Artistic Lover:

Kama Sutra Lover’s Body Paint – Be a love artist with these scrumptious body paints! What would life be without chocolate? Thankfully Kama Sutra has created an enticing set of body paints: Milk Chocolate, Rich Caramel and Dark Chocolate Raspberry, all with a supple body brush for painting your lover’s body – then licking it off one kiss at a time. Enhance your life with these powerfully romantic products.

The Kinky Lover: 

You dream of fantasies and sex acts that can get down right erotic. Make it a night full of sensory stimulation, power play and /or role play that will send thrills of passion and desire on this Valentine’s Day quest of love and sex.

Fetish Fantasy Bow Tie Bondage Kit –  Get tied up in romance with the Bow-Tie Bondage Set. These playful cuff and and ankle restraints are perfect for beginners yet strong enough to ensure your lover won’t escape. The soft, cushy cuffs feel great against the skin and easily adjust to fit most sizes. Cover your lover’s eyes with the plush satin love mask and what happens next is up to you! The set is light pink, perfect for kink, and made to play hard!

We carry many toys for anal eroticism and pleasure, such as beads, plugs, probes, prostate massagers. If you are new to anal play, an associate will be happy to give you suggestions on the right booty toys and lubes for beginners.

The Scorpion – Put the “Sting” into your next intimate encounter with the new “Scorpion” Pleasure Ring with both tongue and anal stimulators and anal beads! High Powered motors promote super stimulation to both pleasure zones; the tongue and anus.  Warning : May cause intense screams of ecstasy! Super soft sensuous silicone  and 2 powerful motors with inter-changeable batteries. It’s an anal orgasm enhancer!

 The Adventurous Lover:

Sexy Instruction:  Reading erotic books are a great way to become aroused and gain creative ideas on how to begin new pleasures in your relationship. Fantasies are fueled and you learn sensual words that easily create a romantic mood. Read a “How to Book “on a specific sexual instruction and express your affection and your fantasy.

 The Ultimate Guide to Oral Sex –  is  the sexiest gift you can give a man!   The 191-page book contains tips, tricks, and techniques to please your man again and again. There are secrets for the ambitious lover and techniques to make him bigger. Also exercises to strengthen your jaw and chin line and finding the male G-spot. It will be a mind-blowing experience for you both!

Bullet Vibrators – Bullets are great for partner playtime because they add extra sensation and vibration, yet they are small and discreet. For longer foreplay and stronger orgasms. We can help you find your very own personal bullet vibe with different pulsations and functions for teasing you or your lover to orgasmic ecstasy.

Be bold, be mischievous with the Bnaughty Unleashed from B Swish. A 10 function waterproof cordless remote massaging bullet for discreet pleasure or to share with someone else. Bnaughty Unleashed is designed to pander to your deepest whim with its oblong shape massager, its silky touch, and electric vibrations. Be in control, or let your partner play with this 10 function cordless remote.

Whether you want a vibrator a bottle of slick lube, a romantic guide on how to give amazing head, or new sexual positions, an anthology of erotic stories, or a gift of fantasy lingerie, we have what you need to help you learn, play and stay together.

Whatever your mood or sensual persuasion creating that intimate rendezvous with that sexy someone this Valentine’s Day is a must. For all of your boudoir sexcessories visit our website at Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store” Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to HoneySoul Radio every Tuesday evening on Blog Talk Radio. Live in the sensual and love in the delicious.

FOREPLAY: Get More Play!

Foreplay is not just physical. Good foreplay is letting go of inhibitions that can keep you from enjoying yourself and your lover. Feeling good about yourself and your feelings will give you the confidence you need to arrive at sensual and sexual pleasure. Creating your space and environment ahead of time with sexy lingerie, a bubble bath, soft music, candles, and aromatic or tasty love oils will give you more control when the time comes to be sensually aroused. When you want to enhance a sacred union with a sexy and romantic mood the sense of smell (aromatic stimulation), touch (cuddling & massage), taste (kissing & oral stimulation), sight (sexy lingerie), and sound (music) are all participants in you and your lover having a pleasurable erotic experience.
Men may not need foreplay to have sex. Hell, many guys are good to go after just a gust of wind. But a new study proves that guys ache for a little pre-sex action. However, most women have never learned this key lust lesson.  Research shows that men are as interested in foreplay as women are and that they want more than they’re having.  The reason is simple. Men appreciate foreplay for the same reasons women do — it feels good physically, so the common consensus that men like it fast and furious is only a myth. But now that you’re clued into this covert carnal craving, you can give him the bedroom buildup he’s jonesin’ for. Here are some  foreplay for him tips.

 Kiss Him Hard

Men like intense, down and dirty, rough and raw kissing. Men are turned on by women who are confident and passionate while kissing. Make it an all over body experience.

Put your whole body into the act of making out, says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., author of Stock Market Orgasm. “The more body parts involved, the more intense the experience.” Her formula for an earthshaking smacker he’ll never forget: Cradle his face with one hand and grab his butt with the other while you simultaneously press your breasts and pelvis against him.

Tantalize All of His Senses

Too often, touch is the only sense that takes center stage during pre-intercourse play. But to graduate from basic to mind-blowing foreplay, you have to incorporate all of his passion receptors. Every type of sensory stimulation — the sight of a woman’s body, her whispers and the smell of her skin activates parts of the brain responsible for sexual arousal. Create a combination that treats several senses at the same time. This is the key to a beyond-divine buildup, especially for men. Other ways to make foreplay a full-body experience: Leave the lights on and listen to an extra-sexy CD, or dim the lights and give him a sexy lapdance, take a shower together by the light of scented candles, or drizzle each other with champagne and lick it off as it fizzes on your skin. These are sure fire ways to keep each of your super aroused.

Take Charge

In bed, guys are often so focused on pleasing their partners that they don’t get to bask in being a sex object. By taking the reins, “not only does it show him that you’re into the action as much as he is, but it also feels great to him to have somebody concentrating on his pleasure,” says Dr. Ava Cadell. You know the feeling, right? So, call some shots in the sack Ms. Thang. For instance, if he makes a move to head down below, pull him back up and instead give him the oral affection he deserves.

Bring Him to the Brink

Once you’ve gotten him to a combustible point, he’ll be begging to get to the main event. Ignore him. It’s a guaranteed way to drive him wild with horny, and amplify his orgasm later. The more someone anticipates sex, the more aroused they get, and therefore, the intensity of their sexual experience increases. For example, “almost oral sex” Head down south, get real close and then pass by with just a hot breath. By the time you finally put your mouth on him, it feels so good that he will almost cry with relief. We promise he’ll be begging for mercy.

Let’s not forget the after play ladies. It is just as important. Stroke his hair gently while in his arms. Whisper words of love softly in his ear. Kiss his neck gently. Stroke him tenderly while he lies in your arms and leave a love note in the bathroom. Let him know that you enjoyed him fully. Pleasing your mate can be so rewarding and satisfying. It sends healthy messages of love and intimacy that truly count.

For all of your boudoir sexcessories visit our website at Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store” Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to HoneySoul Radio every Tuesday evening on Blog Talk Radio. Live in the sensual and love in the delicious.