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Kama Sutra: Sexual Aids & Dildos… WHAT?

Kama Sutra

Lovers in ancient times had a responsibility one to another for sexual satisfaction, and lovemaking. In one of the world’s oldest sexual manuals the Kama Sutra, (“Kama” meaning love and desire, and “Sutra” meaning threading) it is said that lovemaking is a sacred duty between a man and a woman. It was taught within the natures of love, and a deep part of the culture, and as a way of life. Unlike what we are taught in today’s society. We are conditioned to feel shame, guilt and insecurity because of our natural sexual progression and sexual desire.

SensualFoodieChaiTeaSpices-1024x622During the 3rd century there was no such thing as an under orgasmic woman. A husband who was unable to satisfy his lover or his wife was to make every effort to remedy the situation. For a man’s inability to satisfy his wife was not part of the culture, and he must make every provision necessary that would either obtain his erection or encourage his wife’s sexual pleasure. Sages, and/or medicine men and women would prepare elixirs and aphrodisiacs with foods, herbs, and spice mixtures. Some consisted of goats milk, fennel, licorice, pumpkin seeds, cinnamon, almonds, honey, and ghee to strengthen the unfortunate man’s man muscle, and stimulate his sexual desire. If these elixirs weren’t bringing about the desired sexual results in a timely manner he was to remedy the sexually unfortunate situation with foreplay, oral sex or an artificial penis. Yes, you heard it right, a DILDO! He was to skillfully use an artificial penis to give sexual pleasure to his wife. This verse gives instruction to an artificial penis to be used to bring women to orgasmic delight and sexual satisfaction.

Gold Vibrator 2“The man who is utterly unable to achieve an erection should pleasure his wife/lover with a phallus crafted from materials like gold, silver, copper, iron, ivory or horn. The artificial phallus should be shaped to your natural proportions. It will be more arousing for the lady if the outside is studded with a profusion of large, smooth nodules” ( Kama Sutra: Part 7, Chapter 1, Sutras 4–8).

Ooooh, it sounds like these studs and nodules was meant for more vaginal stimulation and arousal upon entry and during penetration. Oh my! Who knew? Here we thought we were sexually advanced in the art of sexual novelties and stimulation, and ancient lovers created methods , means and artifacts to keep a woman happy and sexually satisfied in ancient times!

Black IntimacyFor those you who are sexually frustrated because of your belief that using sexual aids is prohibited. Give yourself permission to experience sexual aids, sexual pleasure, and it’s wonderful release with sexual innovation, and intervention. Don’t cheat yourself, treat yourself with a wonderful dong, dildo, and/or vibrator that can make your love life increase in sexual happiness, and orgasmic pleasure. Men love your woman enough to move pass your ego and let her become sexually satisfied until your beautiful man muscle is putting in work at optimal performance. Remember, a happy wife means a happy life!

When creating that intimate rendezvous with your lover Honey Luv has all of your boudoir sexcessories.  Visit our website at  Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store” or contact us at 337.944.9131 Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to our radio show on Tuesday evenings at 9 pm CST on HoneySoul Radio on Blog Talk Radio.  Remember to “Live in the sensual and LOVE in the Delicious.”

The Honey Diva

Honey Luv Valentine’s Gift Giving Guide


Expressing your love and affection can be different for everyone. At Honey Luv we want to help make that experience a little sweeter  and easier.  This list of sexy Valentine’s Day gift suggestions are for different types of lovers. So ask yourself, “What type of lover are you?” We will share sexy and fun-loving ideas that will help you to decide.

The Romantic Lover:

Kama Sutra Sensual Massage Candles  – melt from candle wax to massage oil in a heartbeat, gliding onto your lover’s skin for a smooth as silk sensual massage.  Warm and seductive, these unique candles ease you and your lover on a romantic journey.  Travel to a world of pure bliss with these incredibly rich and sensual oils.


Le Petits Bon Bons Feather Tickler  If you want to add a soft, sweet feel to your romantic night in, try one of our feather ticklers to tempt and tease your lover. For an even more sensual experience, have your lover wear a blindfold while you trace his or her body with the soft feathers.

The Artistic Lover:

Kama Sutra Lover’s Body Paint – Be a love artist with these scrumptious body paints! What would life be without chocolate? Thankfully Kama Sutra has created an enticing set of body paints: Milk Chocolate, Rich Caramel and Dark Chocolate Raspberry, all with a supple body brush for painting your lover’s body – then licking it off one kiss at a time. Enhance your life with these powerfully romantic products.

The Kinky Lover: 

You dream of fantasies and sex acts that can get down right erotic. Make it a night full of sensory stimulation, power play and /or role play that will send thrills of passion and desire on this Valentine’s Day quest of love and sex.

Fetish Fantasy Bow Tie Bondage Kit –  Get tied up in romance with the Bow-Tie Bondage Set. These playful cuff and and ankle restraints are perfect for beginners yet strong enough to ensure your lover won’t escape. The soft, cushy cuffs feel great against the skin and easily adjust to fit most sizes. Cover your lover’s eyes with the plush satin love mask and what happens next is up to you! The set is light pink, perfect for kink, and made to play hard!

We carry many toys for anal eroticism and pleasure, such as beads, plugs, probes, prostate massagers. If you are new to anal play, an associate will be happy to give you suggestions on the right booty toys and lubes for beginners.

The Scorpion – Put the “Sting” into your next intimate encounter with the new “Scorpion” Pleasure Ring with both tongue and anal stimulators and anal beads! High Powered motors promote super stimulation to both pleasure zones; the tongue and anus.  Warning : May cause intense screams of ecstasy! Super soft sensuous silicone  and 2 powerful motors with inter-changeable batteries. It’s an anal orgasm enhancer!

 The Adventurous Lover:

Sexy Instruction:  Reading erotic books are a great way to become aroused and gain creative ideas on how to begin new pleasures in your relationship. Fantasies are fueled and you learn sensual words that easily create a romantic mood. Read a “How to Book “on a specific sexual instruction and express your affection and your fantasy.

 The Ultimate Guide to Oral Sex –  is  the sexiest gift you can give a man!   The 191-page book contains tips, tricks, and techniques to please your man again and again. There are secrets for the ambitious lover and techniques to make him bigger. Also exercises to strengthen your jaw and chin line and finding the male G-spot. It will be a mind-blowing experience for you both!

Bullet Vibrators – Bullets are great for partner playtime because they add extra sensation and vibration, yet they are small and discreet. For longer foreplay and stronger orgasms. We can help you find your very own personal bullet vibe with different pulsations and functions for teasing you or your lover to orgasmic ecstasy.

Be bold, be mischievous with the Bnaughty Unleashed from B Swish. A 10 function waterproof cordless remote massaging bullet for discreet pleasure or to share with someone else. Bnaughty Unleashed is designed to pander to your deepest whim with its oblong shape massager, its silky touch, and electric vibrations. Be in control, or let your partner play with this 10 function cordless remote.

Whether you want a vibrator a bottle of slick lube, a romantic guide on how to give amazing head, or new sexual positions, an anthology of erotic stories, or a gift of fantasy lingerie, we have what you need to help you learn, play and stay together.

Whatever your mood or sensual persuasion creating that intimate rendezvous with that sexy someone this Valentine’s Day is a must. For all of your boudoir sexcessories visit our website at Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store” Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to HoneySoul Radio every Tuesday evening on Blog Talk Radio. Live in the sensual and love in the delicious.