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Kama Sutra: Sexual Aids & Dildos… WHAT?

Kama Sutra

Lovers in ancient times had a responsibility one to another for sexual satisfaction, and lovemaking. In one of the world’s oldest sexual manuals the Kama Sutra, (“Kama” meaning love and desire, and “Sutra” meaning threading) it is said that lovemaking is a sacred duty between a man and a woman. It was taught within the natures of love, and a deep part of the culture, and as a way of life. Unlike what we are taught in today’s society. We are conditioned to feel shame, guilt and insecurity because of our natural sexual progression and sexual desire.

SensualFoodieChaiTeaSpices-1024x622During the 3rd century there was no such thing as an under orgasmic woman. A husband who was unable to satisfy his lover or his wife was to make every effort to remedy the situation. For a man’s inability to satisfy his wife was not part of the culture, and he must make every provision necessary that would either obtain his erection or encourage his wife’s sexual pleasure. Sages, and/or medicine men and women would prepare elixirs and aphrodisiacs with foods, herbs, and spice mixtures. Some consisted of goats milk, fennel, licorice, pumpkin seeds, cinnamon, almonds, honey, and ghee to strengthen the unfortunate man’s man muscle, and stimulate his sexual desire. If these elixirs weren’t bringing about the desired sexual results in a timely manner he was to remedy the sexually unfortunate situation with foreplay, oral sex or an artificial penis. Yes, you heard it right, a DILDO! He was to skillfully use an artificial penis to give sexual pleasure to his wife. This verse gives instruction to an artificial penis to be used to bring women to orgasmic delight and sexual satisfaction.

Gold Vibrator 2“The man who is utterly unable to achieve an erection should pleasure his wife/lover with a phallus crafted from materials like gold, silver, copper, iron, ivory or horn. The artificial phallus should be shaped to your natural proportions. It will be more arousing for the lady if the outside is studded with a profusion of large, smooth nodules” ( Kama Sutra: Part 7, Chapter 1, Sutras 4–8).

Ooooh, it sounds like these studs and nodules was meant for more vaginal stimulation and arousal upon entry and during penetration. Oh my! Who knew? Here we thought we were sexually advanced in the art of sexual novelties and stimulation, and ancient lovers created methods , means and artifacts to keep a woman happy and sexually satisfied in ancient times!

Black IntimacyFor those you who are sexually frustrated because of your belief that using sexual aids is prohibited. Give yourself permission to experience sexual aids, sexual pleasure, and it’s wonderful release with sexual innovation, and intervention. Don’t cheat yourself, treat yourself with a wonderful dong, dildo, and/or vibrator that can make your love life increase in sexual happiness, and orgasmic pleasure. Men love your woman enough to move pass your ego and let her become sexually satisfied until your beautiful man muscle is putting in work at optimal performance. Remember, a happy wife means a happy life!

When creating that intimate rendezvous with your lover Honey Luv has all of your boudoir sexcessories.  Visit our website at  Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store” or contact us at 337.944.9131 Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to our radio show on Tuesday evenings at 9 pm CST on HoneySoul Radio on Blog Talk Radio.  Remember to “Live in the sensual and LOVE in the Delicious.”

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Sensuality, Sex & Spice with Dr. Sunyatta Amen


Dr. Sunyatta Amen is also known as the sexy Queen of Spice.  She is the author of “Queen of Spice: Sexy Vegetarian Cuisine” the book is a journey into the secret language of love, spice & the sensual arts. She is also owner of SiTea Spice Boutique and MamaSita Movement and Wellness Center located in Washington D.C. 

For all of your boudoir sexcessories visit our website at Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store”  For your sensual soul listen to HoneySoul Radio every Tuesday evening on Blog Talk Radio. Live in the sensual and love in the delicious.

SACRAL CHAKRA: Your Orgasmic Creative Energy

Sexual Energy

Sexual Energy is creative energy. It is the life force of all things manifest in the universe. Your imagination is made up of creative energy.  The Sex Sacral Chakra and her energy bring  love, sensuality, enthusiasm, creativity, curiosity, intuition, self worth, and personality to our beings.  As children we are very in touch with this energy and our Sacral Chakra, and are in fact sensual beings. We are extremely creative, imaginative, and loving. As children we love to touch everything, play, befriend others and to hug those we love. We were free in our self expression and loved giving and receiving love from others.  In Western society not long after the age of 6 comes socialization, and that loving, playful, free spirit is no longer nurtured or accepted among our culture. It is a part of our childhood development. We are taught that sex is nasty and sexual guilt and shame blocks our ability to experience friendly enthusiasm, conscious creativity, sexual freedom and fullness of  their enjoyments.

Where Is The Vortex of This Creative Energy Located?

Well, the Sex Sacral Chakra is located two inches below the navel and is rooted into the spine. It’s known as the second chakra is often referred to as the belly or sacral chakra. It governs our emotions, our sense of self-worth, our confidence with ourselves and with our individual creativity, and it also governs our ability to relate to others in an open and friendly manner. Proper balance of this chakra means the ability to flow with your emotions freely.  If this chakra energy is blocked you may feel an emotional overload, very manipulative, obsessed with thoughts of sex, sexual dysfunction and/or a lack physical energy. 

It’s Represented By The Color Orange 

This chakra  is vibrant and highly charged. It stimulates feelings of renewal. It’s energy is represented by the color orange. Orange is a fun color and can make you feel quite playful. Add some orange accessories to your ensemble and add a flair of joy and playfulness. Also, adding a touch of orange to your color scheme in your sacred bed chamber (bedroom) can actually open up feelings of mindfulness and help to create positive sexual energy while getting your love making on.

Sacred Orgasm

The energy of a full body orgasm also known as a sacred orgasm comes from the bodies center of the sex sacral chakra. This energy rises up and starts with a tingling sensation within the hands and the feet. It comes up through all seven chakras as a pulling sensation up through the stomach, the chest and up to the mind through the third eye and crown chakra. This sacred sexual energy then releases itself.  This is known as a mindless state which means you are not thinking from anywhere between 2 to 5 seconds. A sacred orgasm comes in waves of tingling sensations and can last up to ten minutes. This gives me all the more reason to want to stay in-tuned to this energy. It’s elevated ecstasy at it’s highest frequency. 

Foods Are Aphrodisiacs and Increase Sexual Energy

  • Sweet Fruits: Melons, mangos, strawberries, passion fruit, oranges, bananas & coconut ~These are a few fruits containing natural sugar and give a natural source of high energy.
  • Honey: It was known as the food/nectar of the God’s & Goddesses in Egypt & Greece.
  • Nuts: Almonds, walnuts, cashews, pecans, sesame seeds ~Nuts were known as symbols of fertility in Rome. They have loads of B vitamins that boost sex hormones and libido.
  • Spices: Cinnamon, vanilla, carob, sweet paprika, ginger, clove & cayenne pepper ~Are just some of the spices that have full bodied rich flavors and spicy properties that heighten the senses of pleasure.


If you want to improve your overall sexual health and wellness get in tuned to your creative energy source. Our sex sacral chakra creates  full bodied orgasms to help us improve overall emotional, and mental health. It stimulates and enhances our creativity. It is known to help relieve depression, headaches, menstrual cramps, urinary problems, which have been known to decrease. This is such an added bonus.  Enjoy intimacy and pleasure while creating a positive flow of life energy and awaken and expand your creative force. Share orgasms and elevate your intuition and confidence all in the name of LOVE. It doesn’t get much better than that.

Learn more about Sacred Sexuality at “The Source School of Tantra” with our friends Charles Muir & Leah Alchen. They have a great article on their website   “Tantra: The Art Of Conscious Loving” by Mark Gramunt of the Yoga Journal.

Lisa Schrader has an excellent website Awakening Shakti She gives excellent insight on how to become one with your inner Goddess.  Her article on “Tantra: A Path of Love, Energy & Spirit”  is an great read for understanding the power of this sexual creative energy.

For all of your boudoir sexcessories visit our website at Honey Luv Lingerie & More “The Romance Store”  Like us on Facebook  and follow us on Twitter @TheHoneyDiva. For your sensual soul listen to HoneySoul Radio every Tuesday evening on Blog Talk Radio. Live in the sensual and love in the delicious.